Dear Mary: My lesbian gf and I also are thinking a threesome with a person

I will be a bisexual girl in my very very early 20s and now have been with my gf, that is a lesbian, for more than couple of years.

I will be the happiest We have actually ever been. I’ve never wished to cheat and have always been genuinely pleased and satisfied within our relationship and I also think my partner could say exactly the same.

We recently met a guy whom hinted which he’d prefer to have a threesome with us.

Now, being two women that are young a relationship usually brings these kind of provides, but we’re really considering meeting up using this one.

My spouse and I always talk things away and work out a decision that is joint every thing and I understand we are going to perform some same right here, but I wanted some other viewpoint and thought you will be the greatest so it can have.

My concerns are that my gf will not take pleasure in the experience. She actually is a lesbian but has frequently discussed her fantasy of me personally with guys.

We additionally stress after seeing me with a man that she will no longer feel she is adequate in bed for me. I’m maybe not at all worried that it would make me realise I’ve been missing men if we do this. I believe it might, but, be considered a a valuable thing as we have been young and wish to test before getting married and precisely what follows from then on.

My thoughts that are overall now are, if it is not broken do not repair it. Our sex-life does not require spicing up – I think – but I’m wondering as it couldn’t really hurt that much if we should give it a go. Continue reading →